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maybe the grass would be greener where I am if I stopped looking at the other side of the fence and ignoring my own patch.
maybe if i actually let the grass grow and nourished it rather than killing it off, the grass would be greener where I am.

The grass is always greener on the other side because there is the refusal to make a differnce in how one's own grass is perceived. If it's brown and dying, then maybe you just need to water it! Chances are, no matter where I go, if I don't tend the grass of the situation, it will become dead and ugly... and I'll want to go elsewhere... but then that grass will die too. It's not about the situation, it's about what you make of that situation.